Be Cool
Posted on February 27, 2010 with 0 commentsNot the Travolta movie (oh, I love that!), but a quick note on a recent happenstance. I started to write a series on relationships (How not to choose the right partner? Mistake #1, Mistake#2, Mistake #3 and there will come a few more), some of you have read it.
According to a few feedback, certain people became quite disturbed by it and the examples I gave (without names, of course).
For the time being, I withdrew my articles as drafts, until I decide if I wanna keep them or delete them forever. Probably I will publish them again, because from others I heard that it was helpful. (UPDATE, 2/March: I did restore them.)
What I have to say about it right now is this: there is no reason to get strongly emotional about it and hate me for it. Sure you can do it, if you think that that will solve anything.
But. If you recognize the persons in my examples of how to mess up a relationship and see that it is indeed so with them, why don't you help your friends with the issue? Or, if it's not your story and you are not concerned in any ways, why get mad at me? And if you recognize that it is indeed your story, why get mad at me?
With other words (that I am borrowing from a friend): when you are right, you can afford not to loose your temper, and when you are wrong, you can't afford to loose it.
So just be cool...
Would love to hear your thoughts: